Paul Tournier Quotes
-
Sooner or later, those who win are those who think they can.
→ -
God leads us step by step, from event to event. Only afterward, as we look back over the way we have come and reconsider certain important moments in our lives in the light of all that has followed them, or when we survey the whole progress of our lives, do we experience the feeling of having been led without knowing it, the feeling that God has mysteriously guided us.
→ -
Acceptance of one's life has nothing to do with resignation; it does not mean running away from the struggle. On the contrary, it means accepting it as it comes, with all the handicaps of heredity, of suffering, of psychological complexes and injustices.
→ -
The experience of being in between-between the time we leave home and arrive at our destination; between the time we leave adolescence and arrive at adulthood; between the time we leave doubt and arrive at faith. It is like the time when a trapeze artist lets go the bars and hangs in midair, ready to catch another support: it is a time of danger, of expectation, of uncertainty, of excitement, or extraordinary aliveness.
→ -
If there had been no fear of failure, neither would there be any joy in success.
→ -
That is what marriage really means; helping one another to reach the full status of being persons, responsible and autonomous beings who do not run away from life.
→ -
We are nearly always longing for an easy religion, easy to understand and easy to follow; a religion with no mystery, no insoluble problems,no snags; a religion that would allow us to escape from our miserable human condition; a religion in which contact with God spares us all strife, all uncertainty,all suffering and all doubt; in short, a religion without a cross
→ -
Everything that is worthwhile in life is scary. Choosing a school, choosing a career, getting married, having kids - all those things are scary. If it is not fearful, it is not worthwhile.
→ -
In order to make a success of old age, one must begin it earlier, and not try to postpone it as long as possible. In the middle of life we must stop to think, to organize our existence with an eye to a still distant future, instead of allowing ourselves to be entirely sucked into the professional and social whirl. It is then that it is important to give place little by little to less external activities, less technical and more cultural, which will survive the moment of retirement.
→ -
We are always looking for a grand program of action full of great ideas, when the thing is to begin by obeying the little ideas.
→ -
Our task is to live our personal communion with Christ with such intensity as to make it contagious.
→ -
...the highest sign of friendship is that of giving another the privilege of sharing your inner thought.
→ -
Marriage teaches you loyalty, forbearance, self-restraint, meekness, and a great many other things you wouldn't need if you had stayed single.
→ -
Christian faith does not involve repressing one's anxiety in order to appear strong. On the contrary, it means recognizing one's weakness, accepting the inward truth about oneself, confessing one's anxiety, and still to believe, that is to say that the Christian puts his trust not in his own strength, but in the grace of God.
→ -
The really important thing in life is not the avoidance of mistakes, but the obedience of faith. By obedience, the man is led step by step to correct his errors, whereas nothing will ever happen to him if he doesn't get going.
→ -
In order to really understand, we need to listen, not reply. We need to listen long and attentively. In order to help anybody to open his heart we have to give him time, asking only a few questions, as carefully as possible in order to help him better explain his experience.
→ -
There are two things we cannot do alone. One is to be married and the other is to be a Christian.
→ -
People are reluctant to talk about old age and death because they are afraid of emotion, and they willingly avoid the things they feel most emotional about, though these are the very things they most need to talk about.
→ -
Many ordinary illnesses are nothing but the expression of a serious dissatisfaction with life.
→ -
Nothing makes us so lonely as our secrets.
→ -
At the heart of personality is the need to feel a sense of being lovable without having to qualify for that acceptance.
→ -
To be right is dangerous, it has ever been the source of all intolerance.
→ -
Where there is no longer any opportunity for doubt, there is no longer any opportunity for faith either.
→ -
The adventurous life is not one exempt from fear, but on the contrary, one that is lived in full knowledge of fears of all kinds, one in which we go forward in spite of our fears.
→ -
No one can develop freely in this world and find a full life without feeling understood by at least one person.
→ -
I am convinced that nine out of every ten persons seeing a psychiatrist do not need one. They need someone who will love them with God's love...and they will get well.
→ -
What happens then is like what happens when we separate a jigsaw puzzle into its fuve hundred pieces: The over-all picture disappears. This is the state of modern medicine: It has lost the sense of the unity of man. Such is the price it has paid for its scientific progress. It has sacrificed art to science.
→ -
Sickness may be the solemn occasion of God's intervention in a person's life.
→ -
The real meaning of travel, like that of a conversation by the fireside, is the discovery of oneself through contact with other people, and its condition is self-commitment in the dialogue.
→ -
Let us not seek to bring religion to others, but let us endeavor to live it ourselves.
→
Related Authors
-
Lloyd John Ogilvie Minister -
Howard Zinn Historian -
Henry Cloud Clinical psychologist -
Francis Schaeffer Theologian -
John Townsend Author -
John Stott Author -
Max Lucado Author -
Philip Yancey Author -
Claude Bernard Physiologist -
Larry Crabb Author -
Henri Nouwen Priest -
Arthur C. Clarke Film writer -
Lee Strobel Author -
C. S. Lewis Novelist -
Julia Cameron Teacher -
John Ortberg Author -
Gerald May Psychiatrist -
-
Alexis de Tocqueville Historian -
Brennan Manning Author