• It's sad to think that we've gotten to this, that we actually have to think about how to go about finding a man. But what's even sadder is that some men make you feel guilty for looking.

    Terry McMillan: It's sad to think that we've gotten to this, that we actually have to think about how to go about finding a man. But what's even sadder is that some men make you feel guilty for looking.
    "How Stella lost her groove" by Gary Younge, www.theguardian.com. July 22, 2005.