• When life begins we are tender and weak When life ends we are stiff and rigid All things, including the grass and trees, are soft and pliable in life and dry in brittle in death So the soft and supple are the companion of life While the stiff and unyielding are the companions of death An army that cannot yield will be defeated A tree that cannot bend will crack in the wind Thus by Nature's own decree the hard and strong are defeated while the soft and gentle are triumphant

    Laozi: When life begins       we are tender and weak When life ends       we are stiff and rigid All things, including the grass and trees,      are soft and pliable in life      and dry in brittle in death So the soft and supple       are the companion of life While the stiff and unyielding       are the companions of death An army that cannot yield      will be defeated A tree that cannot bend      will crack in the wind Thus by Nature's own decree      the hard and strong are defeated      while the soft and gentle are triumphant